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Chalk pastels, old, something weird happened when cleaning up the photo, I know it's there. idgaf maybe get a better photo some other time.
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A longtime "crusade" of mine has been against judgment and stigma in sexuality of all sorts. Everything from homosexuality to fetishism to fantasies... and pedophilia was a topic I touched on several times before in conversation.

Even the word triggers very powerful, visceral reactions in almost everyone I've brought it up to. The very concept of it is so reviled that to actually have the conversation about how to deal with it ethically is almost impossible, as the first reaction most people have to the idea of someone being a pedophile is that they should be killed, or sent to prison to be raped... many even stating that they would find enacting these punishments themselves to be pleasurable.

The inhumanity staggers me every time.

So here it is... some actual conversation with an actual pedophile.
If you cannot bring yourself to sit and just listen and TRY to understand, maybe you should think about why that is and whether you think that it is an acceptable way to go about dealing with other human beings.

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Feel free to tell me how wrong I am.
I love Emma Watson. I greatly admire her and I think she has a lot of potential... but I do not agree with her statements about what feminism is.
Dictionary definitions are not the end-all, be-all of what a thing is.
I say this as a woman... indeed, as she said, a woman who has chosen to not associate with feminism. But I did not come to this conclusion because I believe that all feminists hate men, or because I think they are too strident in what they say.

I am not because the community has become irrational and poisonous, too many who are hateful and too many others who deny the existence and feminism of those hateful people.
I am not because I am a humanist, and I approach all issues as a human issue first and a particular group issue second, and because I include men and boys and other non-women as also being victims of most of the issues feminism addresses, I am frequently (in fact, pretty much always) told that I must be a man because I am concerned for the rights of men, or that I am turning it into something to gain attention for myself, or that while I am right that there are also non-women who are involved it is not the right place or time to discuss it... and the "right time" never comes.
I am not because I understand what a No True Scotsman fallacy is and I will not accept it as an excuse for the nature of the feminist community.
I am not because I am tired of the harassment I receive from feminists for agreeing with the issue and simply expanding it to include all people, and for having other "moderate" feminists defend themselves first before or instead of acknowledging the problem I have presented.
I am not because the word itself is gender biased, implying that only by acting for women's rights can equality be achieved, when in fact presenting any issue as being a "women's" issue is in and of itself divisive and discriminatory.
I am not because gender egalitarianism and feminism are not equivalent and cannot be used interchangeably.
I am not because I will not willingly associate myself with hateful, ignorant people like those I described by using a word that does not properly identify my views to begin with.

Yes, I am ENTIRELY in favor of eliminating sexism from society. However, I will not accept that including all people and having a broad-scope approach to what sexism is and how to treat it in any way detracts from its progress. If we are to have any sort of comprehensive approach to eliminating this problem, we MUST do away with this concept that any problem is caused strictly by men or suffered strictly by women. It is absolutely not true.
Remove those blinders. Call a spade a spade.

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I AM SO FUCKING SEXY OH GOD YES

I'm Fluffy. I'm 24.

I'm a culinary student.
I'm a perv.
I'm a dAmn addict.
I'm a musician.

:heart: chocolate, spicy food, questions, dark electronica, pretty faces, arrogant people, silver jewelery, and fancy bedclothes.

:thumbsdown: assumptions. ignorance, credulity

Ask me anything. I can't think of a question I don't have an answer for.

Current Residence: Davis, California
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Personal Quote: "You're a sweetie with the sense of humor of a sexual overlord."
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Daddys-Girl1997 Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2014
So sorry I have to do this:

from a friend on the computer, did what it told me to, and within a week,

everything I had wished came true!! Here's an exact copy,

this

really

works!!!!

1. To yourself, say the name of the only guy or girl you wanna be with 3

times!

2. Think of something you wanna accomplish within the next week and say

it to your self 6 times!!

3. If you had 1 wish what would it be? say it to yourself 9 times!!!

4. Think of something that you want to happen between you and that

1special person and say it to your self 12 times!!!

5. Now, heres the hard part! Pick only 1 of these wishes and as you scroll

down focus and concentrate on it and think on nothing else but that wish.

* *

* *

* *

Now make one last & final wish about that one wish that you picked.

After reading this, you have 1 hour to send it out to 15 people, and what

you wished for will come true within in one week!

u only get one chance!!!!! Now scroll down and think of your
crush!!!

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Did you think of your crush? I hope so, that was your last chance. Now

pay very close attention this important message!

Sorry but once read, must be sent. Yes, this is one of those kinda chain
letters that everyone hates. This one has been going since 1864 and if you
break this chain, you will pay!!!!!! Remember that after hearing these
stories.

First Example:

Take Barbra Wallace.. She was a pretty lucky girl, up till she got this same
chain letter. She had a crush on the same kid since kindergarden. when she
got this mail she didn't pay any attention to it. She just thought, no big deal.
And deleted it. The next day her dad got fired and her mom dies in a car
crash. If she would have sent the letter none of that would have happened
and her mom would be alive.

Second Example:

Try Freddie D. Now Freddie D. was your average nerd. Had glasses, was
short and chubby, was in gifted. All the signs of
your total dork. He also received this letter and sent it to 51
people in the hour. Now, like Barbra, he had a crush on a girl since 3rd
grade. The next day after sending the chain the girl confessed her love for
him ever since 3rd grade. Freddie D. finally had the courage to ask her out,
and of course, she had been waiting to yes to that for years. They grew up
and married each other to live happily forever.

Now, you heard the stories. I know which person i'd rather
be, but thats up to you. I wouldn't wanna end up like Barbra but thats only

me. We all want what we cant have but now's ur chance to go out withthat

special somebody ur waiting for. Take it or leave it. If you send this to-

1 person- you will lose all luck in ur love life..... forever!!!!!

10 people- your crush will say they like you as a friend...... ONLY!!!!!

15 people- your crush will say they like you

20 people- your crush will ask you out!

25 people- your crush will kiss you!!

30 people - Your crush will have sex with you

35 people or more- All of the above!!

Don't blow it, it's ur chance to shine! Have everything u wanted, and more!

Now, complaining cus u dont have any
friends. Well theres an answer 4 everything. It's simple, just go in a chat

room, pick some names and send away! but here's the catch..... you only

have 1 hour
if the pain goes on im not gonna make it...! 
sorryi just want to teleport to anime from kitty-kawai<don't copy this also this just a letter from me that I don't believe in these but its woth a try XD
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PantherPryde Featured By Owner Sep 27, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
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I'm going to miss you. :hug:
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Sitting-Brain Featured By Owner Sep 22, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
That's a cute bear you're working on :la:

Plus, your duckface is weird, and that's a compliment xD
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TheAncynt Featured By Owner Jul 31, 2014  Professional General Artist
You're in jail .... Cry emote 
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FluffyInDrag Featured By Owner Jul 31, 2014  Professional Artist
Yes, I'm in jail because I said "gay." Literally that's all. I said gay, not calling anyone gay, not saying anything is gay, just the word itself. 
A mod asked me why I was saying it, I started to explain but another mod interrupted saying I was arguing with the mod (the mod hadn't told me not to say it, just asked why I said it). I said I wasn't arguing, tried to finish explaining, and was muted for 3 days because of it.

I was accused of not complying with a mod except for the part where I did comply, wasn't told not to do the thing until after I was told I was arguing about it, never said I would not comply, and the thing I said wasn't against any rules to begin with.
So.
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TheAncynt Featured By Owner Jul 31, 2014  Professional General Artist
It's a bit of your safeword (hope google translated that well), if I'm not mistaken...

That's a pity :(
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Uncle-Scratchy Featured By Owner Feb 28, 2014  Hobbyist Photographer
Your id picture is shocking. Not in a bad way. But I digress, I just want to say "Hello, your comment signature is funny".
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FluffyInDrag Featured By Owner Feb 28, 2014  Professional Artist
Gay.
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Uncle-Scratchy Featured By Owner Jul 20, 2014  Hobbyist Photographer
Noted.
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